Age 68 1/2 years old.
Told truth of elderly abuse of seniors at a retirement home to “friends”.
Two “friends” reported to abuser
68 year old threatened and harassed for telling lies and spreading rumors
68 year old was not telling lies nor spreading rumors
They were based on actions done to 68 yr old or to neighbors in front of the 68 yr old.
No rumors of other neighbors
Now abuser threatened to hurt the 68 yr old more than was done
Especially if the person talks to other people
68 year old talked about another subject to friend neighbor
Abuser screamed at person like a dog in front of the public
Thought the person was telling lies about abuser and the person wasn’t
If caught talking to people, may put in jail or prevent entrance to other retirement homes
68 year old was told they are being investigated in all media.
YouTube, WordPress, Facebook, Messenger
Person not sure if the threat is real or not
Was told broke a lot of rules and the law
Was not told what rules was broken
Sounds fishy because no papers were served
Adviser suggested to delete Facebook, Messenger, WordPress, and YouTube
Person deleted Facebook. Now misses friends.
Feels alone. Sad without friends
Family says stay away from abuser
Don’t talk to them
Person can’t stay away because they are everywhere in building
Person gets tired of hiding, only coming out after midnight
So not to run into neighbors or abuser
Person decides to go home soon
Family says no. Stay and make friends
Sibling scolds 68 year old because in serious trouble
If the person knew telling the truth to friends was a crime
Wouldn’t have reached out for help of elder abuse and gaslighting
People cannot make friends with a bully, narcissist, gaslighter, person with a grudge
Friends say stay, wait 2 months more,
Family says stay, make friends with abuser
Person being scolded by younger sibling, family, friends and abuser
Person wants to leave
Wants to be with significant other
Wants to make peace with all
Not make friends sad, not make family sad
Not make significant other sad
Not make person sad
Being pulled in 4 directions
About to have a mental breakdown
Almost wished not to have been born
Person has never had own life
Always was controlled to do other’s ways
Not the person’s way
Now at 68 not grown up yet to be themself
Parents say when grown up then you can do what you want
Live as you want
Person’s 68. Still not grown up according to parent
Asked parent, “when am I old enough to be grown up?”
Never was allowed to grow up.
Everyone is pulling the rug out from under feet
Say stay down. Don’t get up
Can’t stay 2 more months because
Will end up being caught saying Hi to a neighbor
Out will the person go Living in car with pet
Or be put in jail
Person wants to go Family says you’re making a mistake
Person has few more years to live and experience life to the fullest
Making mistakes are good
Learning from mistakes makes one wiser
Please let the 68 yr old go! Person will end up commiting suicide if can’t leave, get away from elder abuser and go be with the one the person loves
Abuser cannot be touched
It’s a crime to tell the truth
Liars go free.
Elders are allowed to live to be pounded on to let the younger people get their energy and frustration out
Pounding elders makes younger people feel they are powerful.
Elders’ lives matter. Without the wisdom of elders the world wouldn’t be better.