You that father children, whether you are male or female. You try to protect your little girls until it’s time to marry. Especially if they want to marry a male. And you teach them to abstain from sex until their wedding day because it makes that day special. Is that right?
And you try to protect your boys and tell them the same thing. Right?
Why protect your girls up until you hand them to the boys to be brutally abused? And why tell your boys to have at it anyway they want because the girls are now their property?
My mom told me not to have sex (which I didn’t know what that was) until I got married.
My dad protected me since birth the best he could.
My mom shows me a scientific explanation of what sex was, and she wouldn’t sit down and talk to me.
After reading half the night I was scared and told her I didn’t want to get married if that’s what marriage was.
Mom told me if I want sex, I have to marry a guy. Also she told me that no matter how I feel, that I had to let him have sex with me. I had no say so in the marriage.
I was shoved into the marriage.
My husband wasn’t gentle with me.
He ripped off my nice clothes my mother spent a lot of money for.
He forced himself on me like a manic and raped me while I was screaming and crying.
He ripped my insides and from my hole up to above my bladder and from my hole up past my anus (butt hole). There was blood all over us and the bed was saturated like there was a murder. He poked me over and over for hours even after I fainted.
I woke and he was still at it.
I then wished I had died.
I almost did because of losing so much blood.
The next day he gave me a break.
Then the rest of the week he raped me with no mercy.
He said I had to get used to it. I was now his property and I had to obey him.
Now. Why do you hand your daughter over to a raper?
I did eventually get out of the marriage. But mom said I had to marry if I wanted sex.
I love sex, yes, but I’m sure there are other ways to do it in a softer and safer way. Men aren’t always in charge.
Teach your boys to have respect for the gentler sex. Be patient. Love them like they loved their first car, truck, motorcycle, ect.
Treat them like they are the queen of their hearts. They aren’t a piece of property.
They are the other half of their hearts. Make love to them not sex. There is a difference.
Teach your girls how to protect themselves like learning martial arts. They don’t have to lay there a be brutally abused.
Teach them how to be gentle with their husbands and to love them because they are the other half of their hearts.
And if they are being treated bad leave them because the men that are like that can apologize 100 times but they won’t change.
And tell them ways to have sex without a man.
Don’t teach your daughters that men have to take care of them.
Teach them to take care of their own selves.